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Latino Bullying: Cecilia And Jonathan Cutler Name Four Families And Police …

16 Aug

A Latino family in Las Vegas filed a lawsuit this week against four families, alleging extensive bullying of their adolescent daughter and vandalism of their home. Among the defendants is Christopher Darcy, a local police captain.

Cecilia and Jonathan Cutler named the “mean girls” who bullied their Hispanic daughter in school along with their parents, who, the Cutlers said, “make excuses and shirk responsibility for their children’s actions.”

“This is a classic case of bullying motivated by race and other factors, with parents who are unwilling to take responsibility for their children,” the Cutlers stated in the complaint, according to Courthouse News.

According to the complaint, the juvenile defendants “repeatedly made racially derogatory comments” to the Cutlers’ daughter during classes at Sig Rogich Middle School and also took to social media sites to call her names such as “Oompa Loompa” and “Dora the Explorer.”

The bullying escalated on June 8 when the Cutler’s home was vandalized with racist drawings. Saran wrap, aluminum foil and toilet paper littered the property while food products such as eggs, olive oil, frosting and chocolate syrup were thrown at the house.

Following the incident, the Cutlers said Darcy, the police captain, “engaged in a campaign of intimidation” by suggesting they not file an insurance claim. Cynthia Darcy and her daughter reportedly helped clean up the debris, however, the youngest Darcy continued making derogatory statements during the endeavor.

This is not the first incident of Latino bullying. Following Alabama’s immigration crackdown, many Hispanic students have been targeted by their peers because of their race or immigration status.

Earlier this year, non-profit Nevada PEP launched a local training program for Hispanic parents to teach them what to do if their kid is being bullied.

While bullying can cause heavy psychological damage, a recent study also found that schoolyard taunting can also have a significant educational impact on the bullied student’s GPA, especially for high-achieving Latinos.

The Cutlers are seeking upwards of $40,000 in damages and attorneys fees.

Check out the slideshow below to see other incidents of bullying.

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  • Karen Klein

    Karen Huff Klein, a bus monitor for the Greece School District in Greece, N.Y., received an outpouring of support after a a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/20/greece-school-district-bullied-footage-causes-outrage_n_1612925.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”ten-minute video of her enduring vicious bullying/a while watching over students on a bus ride home was uploaded to YouTube.

  • Stormy RIch

    Stormy Rich, an 18-year-old Florida student, says she was punished in May 2012 a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/28/stormy-rich-florida-high-_n_1551350.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”after reporting bullying of a special needs student/a on a school bus, and standing up to those bullies when the school didn’t take action.

  • Rachel Ehmke

    Rachel Ehmke, a 13-year-old seventh grader in Mantorville, Minn., died April 29, 2012 after hanging herself at her home. The months leading up to the tragedy a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/08/rachel-ehmke-13-year-old-_n_1501143.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”were a whirlwind of peer abuse instances/a, her parents say.

  • Akian Chaifetz

    In April 2012, Stuart Chaifetz sent his 10-year-old son Akian to New Jersey’s Horace Mann Elementary School wearing a hidden audio recorder, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/23/stuart-chaifetz-father-wire-son-records-teacher-abuse_n_1447330.html” target=”_hplink”uncovering verbal and emotional abuse from his son’s classroom aide and teacher/a.

  • Joel Morales

    Joel Morales, a 12-year-old student in East Harlem, New York City, hanged himself in May 2012 a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/31/joel-morales-hangs-self-bullying-dead-father_n_1559450.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”after bullies at school taunted him/a for his size, intelligence and the death of his father.

  • Darnell “Dynasty” Young

    Darnell “Dynasty” Young, a 17-year-old gay student at Arsenal Tech High School in Indianapolis, Ind., a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/02/darnell-dynasty-young-gay-student-stun-gun_n_1471921.html” target=”_hplink”faced expulsion in May 2012/a after he fired a stun gun at bullies he claims were about to beat him up.

  • Oklahoma Student

    A 14-year-old student from Longfellow Middle School in Enid, Okla., a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/26/oklahoma-middle-schooler-seriously-injured-in-school-bullying-incident_n_1456356.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”was left seriously injured/a and had to undergo surgery after an incident of bullying went too far.

  • Corey Pingeton

    Cory Pingeton, an 18-year-old student at Franklin High School in Franklin, Mass., a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/30/cory-pingeton-high-school-student-sucker-punched-at-school_n_1465390.html?utm_hp_ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”required medical attention/a in April 2012 after an unnamed suspect viciously attacked him in the school’s hallway. After fleeing the campus following the attack, the suspected assailant now faced criminal charges.

  • Julio Artuz

    15-year-old Julio Artuz in November 2011 spoke out about his special needs teacher bullying him, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/16/julio-artuz-15-records-teacher-verbally-abusing_n_1097166.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”filming an encounter with the teacher at Bankbridge Regional School in New Jersey./a

  • Ohio Boy

    A 10-year-old Ohio boy in April 2012 brought a BB gun to school a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/19/ohio-school-bb-gun-bullies_n_1438333.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”to fend off bullies./a

  • Sawyer Rosenstein

    New Jersey student Sawyer Rosenstein received a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/18/nj-bullys-paralyzing-punc_n_1435176.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”a $4.2 million settlement/a from the Ramsey school district years after a bully’s punch paralyzed him for life.

  • Female Students

    In March 2012, two female students from Mooresville High School in North Carolina were suspended after another student used her cellphone to a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/22/mooresville-high-school-bus-bullying-video_n_1373894.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”film the girls viciously bullying a male student on a school bus./a

  • Lennon Baldwin

    15-year-old Lennon Baldwin, a freshman at Morristown High School in New Jersey, committed suicide in April 2012, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/02/lennon-baldwin-15-year-old-commits-suicide-after-being-bullied_n_1398147.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”and police are investigating whether bullying was to blame./a

  • David Pecoraro

    David Pecoraro, a math teacher at Beach Channel High School in New York, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/19/david-pecoraro-serial-spi_n_1287929.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”was reassigned to an administrative office /aafter video of him swatting at and spitting on a student surfaced online in February 2012.

  • Kaleb Kula

    Kaleb Kula, a sixth grader with autism, was brutally beaten to the ground at his Maryland school bus stop in January 2012 while his peers stood by to watch — a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/22/kaleb-kula-autistic-6th-g_n_1222068.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”and catch the act on camera./a

  • Warren Lewis

    Warren Lewis, a Houston teenager accused of shooting a classmate in the leg at school, said in January 2012 that he was defending himself from a a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/11/teen-in-texas-school-shoo_0_n_1200385.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”group of boys who had been bullying him./a

  • Phoebe Prince

    A lawsuit brought by the parents of Phoebe Prince, a 15-year-old Irish immigrant in Massachusetts who committed suicide after relentless bullying,a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/28/phoebe-prince-bullying-la_n_1172755.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink” was settled for $225,000 in December 2011./a

    strongCorrection:/strong A previous version of this slide incorrectly stated the date of settlement.

  • Restraining Order

    Kentucky mother Joy Furman claims her 9-year-old daughter has been bullied for two years at school, and seeks a restraining order against a fourth-grade boy she accused of tormenting her daughter, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/24/girls-mom-seeks-restraini_n_1450299.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”kicking her in the chest and chasing her with scissors./a

  • Ashlynn Connor

    In November 2011, 10-year-old Ashlynn Connor hanged herself in her closet by a scarf, just a few weeks after she told her mother she was being bullied at Ridge Farm Elementary School in Illinois a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/14/ashlynn-conner-ten-year-o_n_1092683.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”and her mother denied the girl’s request to be home schooled./a

  • Kelly Chafins, Christy Wilt

    Kelly Chafins and Christy Wilt of Miami Trace Middle School in Ohio were caught on tape in the fall of 2011 a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/08/kelly-chaffins-christy-wi_n_1081980.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”verbally abusing a 14-year-old special needs student./a Chaffins resigned and Wilt was scheduled to undergo a probation period as well as eight hours of mandatory training in “how to recognize child abuse and stop bullying.”

  • Patty Fabian

    In October 2011, 15-year-old Patty Fabian was left with black eyes and a broken nose after a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/07/patty-fabian-15-year-old-bullied_n_1079761.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”a peer at Garland High School in Texas viciously assaulted her./a Video of the assault was posted on YouTube while Fabian was rushed to the hospital.

  • Rebecca Arellano, Haileigh Adams

    In the fall of 2011, Rebecca Arellano was crowned Patrick Henry High School’s first lesbian homecoming king. The next day, her girlfriend Haileigh Adams was crowned queen. Despite widespread support from the school and the couple’s friends and family, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/01/rebecca-arellano-haileigh_n_1070436.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”the couple subsequently received waves of hateful phone calls and emails./a

  • Nicolette Taylor

    In the fall of 2011, 13-year-old Nicolette Taylor from Long Island a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/12/nicolette-taylor-13-year-_n_1007371.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”decided to get plastic surgery/a after enduring online harassment and name-calling multiple times a week because of the shape of her nose.

  • Jamey Rodemeyer

    Taunted since grade school for hanging out with girls, 14-year-old Jamey Rodemeyer told his parents things were finally getting better since high school started. Meanwhile, on a blog his parents didn’t know about, he posted increasingly desperate notes ruminating on suicide, bullying, homophobia and pop singer Lady Gaga. A few days later, he hanged himself outside his home in suburban Buffalo, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/29/jamey-rodemeyers-suicide-_n_987054.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”quickly gaining a fame like that described in one of his idol’s songs. /a

  • Justin Aaberg

    15-year-old Justin Aaberg committed suicide in July 2010 after what his mother Tammy Aaberg says was relentless anti-gay bullying at his Minnesota school. Tammy Aaberg has since gathered signatures for a petition and marched to the office of her congresswoman, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/16/tammy-aaberg-mother-of-te_n_966455.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”Republican Rep. Michele Bachmann, to call on Bachmann to publicly address gay bullying./a

  • Zachary

    When video of 15-year-old Zachary being beaten over and over again by a classmate went viral in October 2011, the school told the gay teen that he need to “tone [himself] down.” The school’s handling of the attack outraged Zach’s mother Becky Collins, a href=”http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/15/teen-speaks-out-after-vic_n_1095874.html?ref=school-bullying” target=”_hplink”who couldn’t understand why officials would say her son needed to change, instead of the bullies. /a

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"Anti-Bullying Strategies for Teens With Autism" to Be Presented at The Help …

9 Mar

/PRNewswire-USNewswire/ — Bullying is an issue of great concern for parents and educators across the country. Young people with developmental challenges are particularly vulnerable to bullying by their peers. On Thursday, March 15, 6:30-8:30 p.m., The Help Group Distinguished Lecturer Series will feature a special presentation by Dr. Elizabeth Laugeson — Bully Proofing Strategies for Teens with Autism: Evidence-based Approaches for Handling Bullying and Other Peer Conflicts. In this interactive and lively presentation, Dr. Laugeson will provide concrete tools to aid parents, educators and mental health professionals in helping teens with autism spectrum disorders effectively handle bullying and other forms of peer conflict. 

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The lecture will be held at The Help Group’s Culver City Campus, 12101 Washington Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90066.

A licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Laugeson is the Director of The Help Group-UCLA Autism Research Alliance and Clinical Instructor in the Department of Psychiatry and Biobehavioral Sciences at the UCLA Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior.  She is also the Director of the UCLA PEERS Program, an outpatient clinic providing parent-assisted social skills training for adolescents and young adults with autism spectrum disorder and other social impairments. 

Tickets are $10 for general admission or $25 for professionals seeking continuing education credits.  Please visit www.thehelpgroup.org or call (818) 779-5212 to register.

The Help Group’s Distinguished Lecturer Series features experts in the areas of autism spectrum disorders, ADHD and learning disabilities.  

About The Help GroupFounded in 1975, The Help Group is the largest, most innovative and comprehensive nonprofit of its kind in the United States serving children with special needs related to autism spectrum disorders, learning disabilities, ADHD, developmental delays, abuse and emotional problems.

The Help Group – UCLA Autism Research Alliance is dedicated to enhancing and expanding clinical research in the education and treatment of Autism Spectrum Disorders and to contributing to the development, greater understanding, and use of best practice models by researchers, educators, and clinicians.

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http://www.sacbee.com/2012/03/08/4322309/anti-bullying-strategies-for-teens.html

Cyber Bullying PSA. (Please Watch – Very Important)

11 Feb

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Outing Gay Utah Teen Did Not Solve Gay Bullying, School Finds

17 Dec

In an infuriating instance of life imitating art, an unnamed high school student in the Alpine School District of Utah was outed to his family this week — not by peers or bullies, however, but by his school. After the the student referenced his sexual orientation in a school project and teachers overheard cruel comments from his peers, the school district decided to contact the boy’s parents and let them know about his sexual orientation as a precaution for potential bullying. The student is 14 years old, and is described as being “nervous” when school officials told him about their plan. He eventually agreed to let them proceed, although he insisted on being out of the room when his parents were told.

The school’s decision was immediately controversial; while the boy’s parents are described as “supportive,” they’re also keeping him home from school “until the controversy subsides.”

In the aftermath of 15-year-old Larry King’s murder by a fellow classmate, King’s mother claimed that if the school had somehow “contained” her gay son’s “behavior,” he might still be alive today. The school officials in the Alpine School District don’t appear to have tried to discipline or “contain” their student, although a teacher did take him aside when his assignment clearly referenced his sexual orientation and confirmed that it was intentional and okay. But their actions do seem to reflect the panicked atmosphere around gay bullying — district spokeswoman Rhonda Bromley described the school’s actions as being “proactive” against bullying. How will his parents’ knowledge (and the ensuing controversy) prevent the kind of bullying that has driven too many kids to suicide and self-harm? How is their school now safer for this student and others who may identify as queer because of this decision? The answers to those questions aren’t immediately evident, definitely not to us and probably not to district officials, either. The implication seems to be that they had to do something – that if they had overheard other kids making fun of this student’s assignment and done nothing, they would be just as culpable as the dozens of other school officials who saw bullying problems and did nothing, and then ended up weeks later at funerals for the children they didn’t protect. What else were they supposed to do? Aside from notifying his parents with their concerns about potential bullying without mentioning their child’s sexual orientation, which seems extremely possible to have done.

As well-intentioned as the school may have been, however, the truth is that outing this student (even with his cajoled “permission”) isn’t in any way an appropriate or an effective response to bullying. As GLSEN explained in their reaction to the incident:

“Outing a student not only violates their right to privacy, but also could compromise their safety. Parents can be notified of their child being bullied at school, but without disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity… Taking away the choice for an LGBT student to come out on their own terms opens the door to significant risks including harassment at school and family rejection. Schools should be able to provide LGBT students with support and resources in order to make an informed decision if and when they decide to come out to their school community and family.”

The Alpine School District may be one of the first examples of a new facet of the teen gay bullying problem: that schools may fully understand the problem of gay bullying and be genuinely motivated to combat it, but simply not understand enough about their queer students’ lives to do a good job — and may in fact make things much worse. As GLSEN points out, for many young people, home is the least safe place in the world to be out. From the outside, it seems like almost pure luck that this student happened to have supportive parents; the school’s decision could easily have ended in an intractable home life or worse, a lack of home life at all if the student was disowned, kicked out, or sent to an ex-gay program. But, as the school noted, the student was out in the classroom — without specific education on queer issues, or “cultural competency,” it may not occur to a school official (or any straight person) that queer people of all ages make very careful and deliberate choices about exactly how out we are in each part of our lives. Being out in one sphere, like work or with our friends, in no way implies that we should also be out in any other place. It in no way implies that being out in any other sphere is safe.

So far, there have been plenty of stories about school districts that apparently don’t care about the torment their students are living with, like Michele Bachmann’s own district, Anoka-Hennepin. But what about school districts who care, and truly don’t know where to start? Looking at this story — and looking at the fact that the student is now missing weeks of school because of the controversy — a few things seem evident. First, that the student’s wishes should be respected: the student themselves knows better than anyone what s/he is experiencing and how they would like it to be dealt with, and making that decision for them is at best disrespectful and at worst irresponsible and dangerous. As GLSEN’s statement says, support, resources, and the ability to make an informed decision are some of the best things you can do for any young person anywhere. If the school district knows that they aren’t sure what to do with GLBT issues, and it seems clear that Alpine doesn’t, why not ask the kids who would know?

But second — and this is important — what happened to the bullies? The Salt Lake Tribune reports that “…an adult aide overheard other students making negative comments to the boy about being gay. An assistant principal admonished the students for their comments.” That’s the last we hear about the bullying students for the rest of the article. If bullying and harassment of gay students is a problem, and it is, how hard is it to admit that the problem lies not with the gay students, but with their bullies? Why were these kids “admonished” once, and the boy they teased waited alone and terrified while he was outed to his parents in a separate room? What would have done more to prevent bullying from happening again — a gay student being outed as gay to his parents, or bullies being outed as bullies to their own?

When Larry King’s mother lamented that her son wasn’t “contained” by school officials for his own safety, she is obviously speaking from a place of grief, but also implying something heartbreaking: that he really was somehow ‘asking for it,’ that if he had acted “normal,” he would not have deserved the completely, totally, utterly undeserved thing that was done to him. And when school districts, or any adult, make a student’s sexual orientation the center of the discussion when it comes to gay bullying, they’re buying into that ideology. That the root of the gay bullying epidemic is “gay,” not “bullying.” And no matter how sincere their good intentions, young people deserve better than that. A 14-year-old in Utah is at home right now, kept there by his supportive parents who for now at least feel that it’s the best way to keep him safe and protected — and the students that he was originally thought to need protection from are still in the classroom. From here, that seems like a different kind of bullying, not its solution.

http://www.autostraddle.com/outing-gay-utah-teen-did-not-solve-gay-bullying-school-finds-124771/

What Moms Can Do About Mean Girls

13 Dec

The world of little girls begins as such a lovely place. Heart and rainbow doodles adorn notebook covers, best friendships are formed within seconds, and bold, exuberant voices carry squeals of carefree laughter and brazen delight. Happiness is worn on a sleeve and anger is voiced with authentic candor.

Length-of-stay in this accepting, kindly world is time-limited for many girls, however. Seemingly overnight, sweet sentiments like, “I love your dress,” turn into thinly-veiled criticisms such as, “Why are you wearing that dress?” Yesterday’s celebratory birthday party becomes today’s tool of exclusion, as guest lists are used to enforce social hierarchies. Long before most school programs begin anti-bullying campaigns, young girls get a full education in social aggression.

What can parents do to help their daughters cope with inevitable experiences of girl bullying?

When Your Child is Bullied

To be forewarned is to be forearmed; when parents know what to look for when it comes to methods of girl bullying, they are in the best position to help their daughters cope with it. Be on the alert for these telltale signs of relational aggression among girls such as:

• Leaving girls out of parties and play dates
• Starting rumors and spreading gossip
• Giving girls the “silent treatment”
• Threatening to take away friendship (“I won’t be your friend anymore if…”)
• Forming “clubs” to include some kids and make others feel left out.
• “Forgetting” to save a seat
• Saying something mean and then following it with “just joking” to try to avoid blame.
• Using social media and technology to send cruel, embarrassing, humiliating messages

Encouraging girls to talk about their experiences with friends (and frenemies) is important. Sadly, many young girls choose not to tell their parents when they have been bullied because experiences of social exclusion are so humiliating and painful. Parents can encourage their daughters to talk about bullying through frequent, casual conversations about peer relationships. Low intensity conversations during the good times provide girls with a foundation of trust that makes it easier for them to open up to parents about struggles.

Open-ended questions (e.g. What do the girls at your school fight about? What kinds of words do kids use to hurt each other?) are a great way to encourage dialogue and convey your genuine interest in your daughter’s experiences and point of view. Just as important as starting the conversation is being prepared to listen to any answers that you receive. Even if you think you’ve been there, done that, and heard it all, it can still be surprising how harsh girls’ language is, even at young ages. When your daughter realizes that you will listen without judgment, she is more likely to continue opening up about her life.

When Your Child is the Bully

We all want to believe that our daughter would never act like a bully. Clinging to this belief, however, prevents parents from engaging in important prevention discussions and/or confronting bullying behavior when it does occur.

During the early school years, parents are in an ideal position to shape their daughter’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors about friendships. When parents talk with their kids about bullying and make it clear that this type of behavior will never be acceptable, they communicate important values and standards. What’s more, when their daughter does eventually follow the lead of a mean girl and start a rumor or use silence as a weapon, the parent can refer back to the conversation about how to treat others and use logical consequences to convey that the bullying will not be tolerated.


When Your Child is a Bystander

Teaching girls to be (s)heroes to their friends who are being bullied can be a real challenge for parents. Many young girls know that bullying is wrong when they see it, but they worry about what might happen to them if they intervene. Parents can play a key role in transforming little bystanders into proud heroes by teaching their daughters that it is never okay to do nothing about bullying. Girls who are given skills for intervening before, during, and after a bullying situation, are gifted with the values and courage that prepare them for a lifetime of forging real, healthy friendships.


Should I or Shouldn’t I?

Parents often struggle with the question of, “Should I intervene in my daughter’s friendship problems?” The line between helicopter and hands-off parenting can get confusing, as adults waver between wanting to protect their daughters from any kind of hurt and believing that girl fighting is an inevitable rite of passage. The bottom line is this: young girls need skills for handling friendship dilemmas and they need a parent’s help to do it. When parents understand what girl bullying is all about and give their daughters opportunities to talk about it, they are in the best position to teach her enduring skills for healthy friendship development.

This article contains excerpts from Signe’s book Friendship Other Weapons: Group Activities to Help Young Girls Aged 5-11 to Cope with Bullying. For more tips on helping girls handle bullying, please visit www.signewhitson.com, “Like” Signe on Facebook, or follow her on Twitter @SigneWhitson.

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Schools’ programs target bullies

13 Nov

The exchange between the Echols Middle School students soon turned sour. The classmate criticized Rachel, 13, for a comment she left on another girl’s photo, and the messages became insulting.

A few days later, one of the other girl’s friends created a Facebook page called “I Hate Rachel Smith.”

Between 50 and 70 classmates joined. They called Rachel fat. They called her ugly. They called her a lesbian — she’s not.

Rachel wrote the girl, asking her to take the page down. Rachel’s mother, Peggy, reported the group to Facebook administrators, and it was eventually removed. Her own friends created a group called “Rachel Smith is Loved.”

Months later, the relationship between the girls is still tense.

“It’s just drama,” Rachel said. “I’m pretty sure that everyone in the eighth grade knows the situation. I just try to ignore it. I wish I could change schools.”

Bullying has become an increasing problem for school officials nationwide than perhaps ever before.

Because so many teens are tech-savvy, most of the bullying has been cyberbullying, either through cellphone text messages or online social networking sites. Some cases have led to teenagers killing themselves, in some cases because they were being bullied.

The Alabama Legislature has tried to crack down on bullying, passing the Student Harassment Prevention Act, which went into effect on Oct. 1, 2009.

The Student Harassment Prevention Act requires that all public school systems in the state adopt policies to prevent students from being bullied, defined as being harassed, intimidated, threatened or hurt in an act of violence by other students.

The law also requires schools to document incidents of bullying.

Greg Hurst, coordinator of student services for the Tuscaloosa County School System, said that in the 2010-11 school year, there were 51 incidents of bullying and harassment in the Tuscaloosa County School System.

So far this school year, there have been 12 documented incidents of bullying and harassment, Hurst said.

He said that none of the incidents were classified as cyberbullying. Four of the incidents led to suspensions.

Vickie Brown, director of student services for the Tuscaloosa City Schools, said that in the city system, there were 22 incidents of threats or intimidation and 84 incidents of harassment that resulted in out-of-school suspensions in the 2010-11 school year.

So far this school year, there have been 41 reports of bullying or threats, Brown said.

She said cyberbullying is not documented separately from other types of bullying, so she couldn’t provide the number of incidents in the city school system that involved cyberbullying, but she did say there have been more cases of it.

“Cyberbullying is certainly an area that has increased over the past few years and is an area we are addressing frequently in the school setting,” Brown said in a written statement.

Despite school officials’ efforts, some parents say it’s not enough. Peggy Smith said she has complained to her daughter’s school about continued harassment of her daughter. Rachel and the other girl are in the same gym class, and have had unpleasant exchanges in the locker room, where there is no adult supervision. Smith said she called the school resource officer after the other girl allegedly threatened Rachel, who was in turn blamed for a prank phone call. Both girls were warned, but no further action was taken.

“They’ve called my daughter a drama queen,” she said of school officials. “Her grades have fallen because of this. It’s just devastating that she’s tormented every day.”

Both school systems, however, say they have done a lot to try to end bullying in school.

Hurst said the county has started educating students about bullying and cyberbullying, provided small group counseling for students at Davis Emerson Middle School twice a week, educated teachers about bullying and created a committee of school district leaders who are creating procedures to assist with appropriate use of social networking and prohibit cyberbullying.

“The Tuscaloosa County School System, students, parents and community will continue our relentless pursuit to decrease bullying in all schools,” Hurst said in a written statement. “Children go to school to learn and should be allowed to do so in a safe environment. Therefore, it is everyone’s goal to make sure that our students are safe and protected.”

Since the state’s student harassment law went into effect, the city school system has revised its anti-harassment and anti-bullying policies by extending the system’s jurisdiction beyond school.

“Since cyberbullying is on the rise, we may have a situation that manifest itself at school the next day such as a fight that originated on Facebook the night before,” Brown said. “(The jurisdiction extension) allows the school system to deal with issues that affect the educational process, even if they did not initially occur during the instructional day.”

The city system has also trained its employees how to report cases of bullying and harassment, hosted community forums to raise awareness about bullying and trained people on how to deal with it. The system has also sent Brown to a national training session on preventing bullying. The training was conducted by Dennis Lewis, who is considered a national leader in providing training on establishing and maintaining safe schools.

Brown said she plans to teach what she learned there to other administrators in the system.

“The administration of Tuscaloosa City Schools is making every effort to ensure a safe learning environment is provided for every student in our district by aggressively addressing the area of bullying and harassment in our system by creating a positive school climate,” Brown said. “We want to be proactive, not just reactive.”

Reach Stephanie Taylor at stephanie.taylor@tuscaloosanews.com or 205-722-0210. Reach Jamon Smith at jamon.smith@tuscaloosanews.com or 205-722-0204.

http://www.tuscaloosanews.com/article/20111113/NEWS/111119729

White House battles bullying at UES summit

31 Oct

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The officials of the Obama administration met with hundreds of local parents, teachers, students and community leaders at a bullying prevention summit Saturday to address the safety of Asian American, Pacific Islander and Muslim American students.

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These students are more likely to be targets of bullying than some of their counterparts, the DNAinfo.com reported.

White House officials said that nearly one-third of all school-aged children are bullied each year, or about 13 million students.

“Post 9/11, bias-based bullying toward religious and immigrant communities has been a consistent issue, and it continues to be under reported,” Thomas Mariadason, an attorney at the Manhattan-based Asian American Legal Defense and Education Fund, said in a statement.

The day-long summit included a panel with representatives from Facebook, MTV and Common Sense Media, who discussed online bullying and how to stay safe on the Internet.

“We’ve seen the egregious effects bias-based harassment has on students when there is a failure to intervene, from the violence at South Philadelphia High School in 2009 to reports we received in years past from the former Lafayette High School in Brooklyn,” Mariadason said.

“The problem persists, and it is a critical time for the White House to address these issues” he said.

The event aims to raise awareness about harassment of Asian and Muslim Americans, encourage students, parents and advocates to report such incidents and discuss possible solutions, according to federal officials.

The city’s teachers union recently unveiled a new anti-bullying hotline for kids.

http://www.china.org.cn/world/2011-10/31/content_23772800.htm

Judges order new hearings ordered in Peapack-Gladstone bullying case

20 Jul

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When James did, his crotch area made contact with the outside of the victim’s mouth, the judges wrote. Witnesses later told police that James also placed his bare buttocks near another boy’s face as the boy was held down.

James was found to be delinquent on five counts by a Family Court judge. The counts, if committed by an adult, would constitute fourth-degree criminal sexual contact, two disorderly persons offenses of simple assault and two petty disorderly persons offenses of harassment.

Daniel, meanwhile, pleaded guilty to the same offenses, according to the appellate court ruling. The boys were placed on probation for 18 months and one year, respectively, and were ordered to not have any contact with the victims.

Both boys were ordered by the Family Court judge to register as Megan’s Law sex offenders for the rest of their lives as a result of their juvenile counts of criminal sexual contact, the judges wrote.

The ruling says that the judges considered whether their conduct constituted “sexual contact” as defined under the law “or merely youthful ‘horseplay’ that, although patently offensive, is nevertheless devoid of the sexual connotation underpinning the offense of criminal sexual contact.”

“Because an adjudication of delinquency based on criminal sexual contact triggers the registration requirements under (Megan’s Law), we are keenly aware that our decision may have profound, lifelong ramifications for these two boys as well as others similarly situated,” the judges wrote.

They sided with the trial court, ruling that the state met its burden of proof with respect to proving “intentional touching,” and that the conduct was “sufficient to sustain an adjudication of delinquency predicated on criminal sexual contact.”

But the ruling also said the Family Court judge erred when it denied James’s petition for post-conviction relief, which argued that his trial attorney failed to challenge the reliability of the victims’ testimony. The appellate judges agreed, citing the questions raised by the fact that two victims were interviewed simultaneously by police.

http://www.mycentraljersey.com/article/20110719/NJNEWS/307190035/Judges-order-new-hearings-ordered-in-Peapack-Gladstone-bullying-case

BULLYING MUST STOP!

16 Jul

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Brodie’s bullying law may go national

1 Jun

Updated May 31, 2011 21:45:00


Brodie Panlock killed herself after extreme bullying by workmates in 2006.

Brodie Panlock killed herself after extreme bullying by workmates in 2006. (www.facebook.com)

The parents of a teenage waitress who killed herself after relentless taunting by workmates at a Melbourne cafe are taking their anti-bullying campaign to Canberra.

Workplace bullies in Victoria now face up to 10 years in jail after a new law was passed in State Parliament on Tuesday, but Damian and Rae Panlock want the legislation to go national.

The legislation, known as Brodie’s Law, was prompted by the death of 19-year-old Brodie Panlock, who killed herself after extreme bullying by workmates in 2006.

The new bill amends the stalking provisions of the Crimes Act to include cyber and workplace bullying, such as threats, abusive language and performing offensive acts.

Mr and Mrs Panlock were in the public gallery to watch Upper House MPs pass the bill.

Mr Panlock says the laws will not bring back his daughter, but will send a message to the community about the dangers of bullying.

“Any loss is disgusting and these people that we have gone through and seen in court and faced [are] just scum,” he said.

“They’re just low, low, low. Why do they do it? Why did they do it? We lost our daughter, people lose their children.

“It’s not just the person that they do it to – which is the worst thing – it’s the families … the whole gamut; they all feel it in different ways of course.”

Mrs Panlock says she hopes the new laws will draw attention to the damage caused by bullying.

“I think it sends a clear message that bullying is a cowardly act and it won’t be tolerated,” she said.

“If you’re going to engage in this sort of behaviour, you’ve got the consequence of ending up in jail.”

And Mr Panlock says the family was talking to federal MPs to see what could be done nationally to stamp out bullying.

The couple hailed the passage of the bill as a victory but said they would like to see other Australian states follow Victoria’s example.

Ms Panlock says the bill sent a clear message that those engaging in bullying now faced jail.

“Instead of investigators from WorkSafe coming out to your workplace, now you’ll have police officers,” Ms Panlock told reporters.

“I just hope no family ever have to go through anything like this again.

“People have got to realise that when they engage in this sort of bullying they really are … they drive them (victims) to the edge and they push them over.”

Brodie Panlock jumped to her death after she was abused by colleagues who poured beer and oil on her, spat on her and offered her rat poison after an earlier failed suicide attempt.

Brodie’s three tormenters, Nicholas Smallwood, Rhys MacAlpine and Gabriel Toomey, were convicted under occupational health and safety laws and fined a total of $85,000, while cafe owner Marc Luis Da Cruz and his company were ordered to pay $250,000.

But, in accordance with the law at the time, none were jailed.

- ABC/AAP

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First posted May 31, 2011 20:39:00

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Most teens bullied, study shows

13 May

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Bullying is rife among teens in some areas, the survey shows.
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MORE than half of all teenagers in some suburbs and country areas have reported being bullied, according to a major survey of youth wellbeing.


High numbers of young people have also admitted trying alcohol, cigarettes and marijuana.

Released yesterday, the 2010 Adolescent Community Profiles gives a snapshot of youth health and social issues for each Victorian municipality.

Bullying was a big problem in Melton, with 54 per cent saying they had experienced recent incidents.

In southeastern suburbs such as Clayton and Oakleigh the figure was around 51 per cent. The City of Bayside, which includes Brighton and Sandringham, had the lowest incidence, with less than one in three reporting recent bullying.

Smoking was popular in Whittlesea, with 53 per cent of 15-17 year olds saying they had tried it.

Teenagers in Moonee Valley, Richmond and Collingwood also had high rates of having tried smoking.

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Quit Victoria executive director Fiona Sharkie said smoking rates in lower socio-economic areas were likely to be higher and children of parents who smoked were more likely to try smoking or be a smoker.

A big proportion of inner-suburban youth had tried marijuana, reaching 43 per cent in the City of Yarra.

Almost one in three 15-17-year-olds in Wodonga had also experienced the drug. More than half of 12-14-year-olds in Frankston and regional areas such as Geelong and the Central Goldfields said they had tried alcohol.

The percentage of 15-17-year-olds who had had sexual intercourse varied considerably, from around 10 per cent in Greater Dandenong to almost 40 per cent in the Geelong region.

In Latrobe City Council’s region, which includes Moe and Morwell, there was the highest rate of teenagers having babies – 28.3 babies for every 1000 people.

State Higher Education and Skills Minister Peter Hall said the profiles identified areas of strengths and weaknesses.

“They are designed to guide decision-making across government so we can more effectively set priorities and allocate resources,” he said.

The Adolescent Community Profiles include data from the Victorian Adolescent Health and Wellbeing survey of more than 10,000 students.

Netlink: education.vic.gov.au

For more on the half of Australian youth who are being bullied go to the Herald Sun.

http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/national/most-teens-bullied-study-shows/story-e6frf7l6-1226055700790