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‘Bully’ killer to appear in court

22 Nov

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Johannesburg – An East Rand Grade 11 pupil is expected to appear in the Vosloorus Magistrate’s Court on Thursday for allegedly shooting dead a fellow pupil he accused of bullying him, Gauteng police said.

“He will appear in court today on a charge of murder and a charge of possession of an unlicensed firearm,” Captain Pinky Tsinyane said.

The 18-year-old Phineas Xulu Secondary School pupil was arrested on Tuesday after he allegedly took the gun belonging to his mother, a metro police officer, to school.

He allegedly shot dead Grade 10 pupil, Nkululeko Ndlovu, when he and his friends confronted him in a class on Tuesday.

‘Bully’ allegations

On Thursday The Star newspaper reported that no one at the school was prepared to shed a tear for the bully, and that the general feeling was that he got what he deserved.

“We are relieved that he is dead. We will now eat our food and spend our money,” one pupil told the newspaper.
Ndlovu’s family denied he was a problem pupil and said they were not aware he was a bully.

“Even if he was a bully, he was not supposed to be killed. Allegations that he was a bully are new to my ears,” Ndlovu’s cousin, Smangele Ndlovu told The Star.

Equipping teachers

Meanwhile, the Democratic Alliance said on Thursday that teachers needed to be trained and adequately equipped to deal with bullying.

“It is imperative that Gauteng schools have a working relationship with the police and social workers from the local police station,” education spokesperson Khume Ramulifho said.

“This will enable them to respond to and prevent violence as well as conduct random searches for weapons and other illegal substances.”

Inkatha Freedom Party Gauteng provincial legislature caucus leader Bonginkosi Dhlamini said the education department should help find the causes of and solutions to bullying.

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http://www.news24.com/SouthAfrica/News/Bully-killer-to-appear-in-court-20121122

Bullying moves to cyberspace

18 Sep

Bullying moves to cyberspace

Bullying moves to cyberspace

Kim Hermsen

Bullying moves to cyberspace

Bullying moves to cyberspace

Bullying moves to cyberspace

Bullying moves to cyberspace

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discussion session “Sticks Stones: Cyber-bullying” will be the opening session of discussion Wednesday Sept. 19, during the Mid-States Organized Crime Information Center’s 32nd annual conference, being held in Dubuque today through Thursday. The presentation will provide a brief overview to officers about the technology available to today’s teens, current Internet trends, how Internet bullying differs from other forms of bullying and implications of cyberbullying.


Posted: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 12:00 am


Bullying moves to cyberspace

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There’s a new school yard for bullies — electronic technology.


McAfee’s 2012 Teen Internet Behavior Study found 62 percent of teens witnessed cruel behavior online, 23 percent claimed to be the targets of cyberbullying and 10 percent bullied online.

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Bullying or teasing? It depends on intent to harm

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Kids will be kids.


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Anti-bullying program taught at Vacaville’s Callison Elementary

15 Sep

Trainer Helen Perdue was in full teaching mode by 11:10 a.m. Thursday and she had everyone’s attention.

In a small quad area between classrooms at Vacaville’s Callison Elementary, she laid down a 30-foot line of white duct tape. Some 40 students — fourth-, fifth- and sixth-graders — gathered on one side and responded to her questions. If the answer was yes, they crossed the line; if no, they stayed in place.

“I have been teased or insulted because of my religion?” Twelve students crossed the line.

“Thank you,” said Perdue, and the 12 students rejoined the larger group on the other side of the line and waited for another question.

“I have been teased or insulted, or left out, because of the size and shape of my body?” Nearly 30 students crossed.

“I have seen a fight happen and wanted to stop it but didn’t know how to?” Nearly all crossed.

“I believe it’s important for everyone at my school to feel safe, both physically and emotionally?”

All students crossed upon hearing Perdue’s last question, part of a block of instruction that served to launch the school’s Safe School Ambassadors Program, the first elementary in Vacaville to do so.

Developed by the Sebastopol-based Community Matters, the training, which continues at the school today, is a program that trains diverse and socially influential leaders to intervene with their friends and classmates when they see teasing, bullying and other acts of cruelty, said Perdue, a Bay Area-based

former middle school teacher who earned a master’s degree in education.

“The focus is empowering students to be the change-makers, to know there are effective actions” they can take to make a difference, to make their schools a safer place to learn, she said inside Room 14, site of the daylong training.

As she spoke, a visitor to the classroom could see the points and lessons she was trying to convey to the students throughout the morning. They were written on poster-size pieces of paper at the front of the class, labeled with outlines headlined “Types of Mistreatment” — exclusion, put-downs, bullying, unwanted physical treatment — “The Ambassadors Job” — notice the four types of mistreatment, among other things — and “Community Agreements” — respect each other’s ideas, set an example (a positive one), participate fully, encourage each other, have patience, be a leader and keep confidentiality.

The program is designed to be proactive rather than reactive, said Catherine Bozzini, principal of the 955-student campus, adding that schools for many students can be a place where they don’t feel welcome, safe and included.

“We see the program as a valuable resource in our efforts to improve school climate, attendance and academic performance,” she added.

Bozzini noted that officials at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta say 75 percent of students confide that they have been bullied at school, an estimate given credence by the response to Perdue’s questions.

The training, funded by a North Bay Schools Insurance Authority grant, comes at a time when school safety has been elevated to a primary concern at public schools nationwide following the April 1999 Columbine High School shooting in Littleton, Colo. There, Eric Harris, 18, and Dylan Klebold, 17, killed 12 fellow students and a teacher, then fatally shot themselves. Many schools responded by making themselves into fortresses, increasing supervision and surveillance, limiting access, setting stricter policies with graver consequences.

Until recently, schools and communities largely have overlooked the best source for stopping school violence and cruelty: the students themselves, Perdue said.

Students, she noted, can see and hear what adults cannot and can intervene in ways adults cannot but sometimes don’t know what to do.

The training, which included skits, simulated situations and a video clip from ABC’s “20/20″ news magazine program, provided skills for the students to make a difference in their school’s safety and overall atmosphere, Bozzini said.

“The power is ours,” she said following Thursday’s training. “After all, 90 percent of the school is made of students. They have the power to make a change.”

The state Department of Education has posted bullying and hate-motivated behavior prevention resources on its web site, a sign that Sacramento officials take the issue seriously in the wake of sometimes tragic occurrences on school campuses.

“Bullying is common, but it should not be viewed as a normal part of growing up,” said Tom Torlakson, the state superintendent of public instruction. “It is more damaging to children than previously thought. Bullying has a negative effect on a student’s ability to learn.”

Shereene Wilkerson, assistant superintendent for Vacaville Unified School District, said programs such as Safe School Ambassador can be included in each school’s Safe School Plan.

“Bullying would be part of that,” she said, noting that the district has provided anti-bullying awareness instruction in the past.

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Ricky Nixon sues over cyber bullying campaign

8 Jul

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http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victoria/ricky-nixon-sues-over-cyber-bullying-campaign/story-e6frf7kx-1226420377253

‘Bully’: Movie sparks conversation

20 Apr

In its most candid scene, “Bully” shows a 12-year-old boy being relentlessly threatened, punched and shoved by classmates while riding a school bus.

Documentary filmmakers Lee Hirsch and Cynthia Lowen reached their limit of seeing the dangerous and escalating attacks. They paused production of “Bully” to show footage from the bus to the boy’s parents and school administrators in Sioux City, Iowa.

“Bully,” now playing at three Indianapolis theaters and extending into a second week of showings, is a stark dose of reality. The bus footage opened eyes when shown in private, and the film is raising awareness of physical and mental abuse among youngsters. Filmmakers hope the documentary is a catalyst for conversations involving students, parents and educators.

The Indianapolis Star attended a Tuesday night screening with two mothers and their teenage children and local child advocates. The all-access look into modern adolescent life may shock or surprise but doesn’t deliver easy answers to bullying.

“As much as it would be amazing to stop all bullying, that’s never going to happen,” said 16-year-old Katie Brewer, Avon. “In this movie, I did feel kind of bad for the school because there is only so much you can do. You can’t stop teenagers from talking badly about other people behind their backs.”

Brewer said she has been the subject of bus-ride taunts.

“The bus driver laughed at it,” she said. “I don’t understand why an adult would laugh at somebody being hurt by other children. They’re your responsibility.”

Authority figures who downplay bullying and express disbelief about its seriousness are seen throughout “Bully.” Brewer’s mother was angered by this.

“A lot of blame was put on the schools in this film,” Sherry Brewer said. “I don’t know if that was necessarily fair, but I don’t know if it wasn’t without being there.”

Alex Libby, the 12-year-old on the Sioux City bus, struggles while interacting with his peers. He’s physically awkward and socially inept. People call him “Fishface.”

“A few years ago, I probably would have made fun of Alex,” Katie Brewer said. “I wanted to fit in so badly that I probably would have made fun of him.”

Made in Iowa, Georgia, Mississippi and Oklahoma during the 2009-10 school year, “Bully” shows bullying inside Libby’s school. The film also shows a mother visiting her incarcerated daughter after the girl brandished a handgun on a school bus, as well as parents grieving at the funeral of their 11-year-old son, who died of a self-inflicted gunshot.

Sandy Runkle-DeLorme, director of programs at Prevent Child Abuse Indiana, said parents, teachers, school administrators, custodial staff and cafeteria workers need to be on the alert.

“Things happen after school, and they happen at times when authority figures aren’t around,” Runkle-DeLorme said. “This needs to be everyone’s issue and everyone’s commitment.”

Runkle-DeLorme and Lynn Highley, a licensed clinical social worker who attended Tuesday’s screening, recommend that schools adopt evidence- and research-based programs to combat bullying.

Highley said these programs value the role of student bystanders, who sometimes passively accept bullying and at other times intervene or seek help.

“Even our kids who aren’t being bullied, they’re such an important component,” Highley said. “We have to get everybody standing up and saying, ‘No, this isn’t right.’ “

Dakota Tobias, 13, said he stopped being the target of bullying when his mother gave him the OK to fight back.

“We went through the proper channels,” said Jodi Tobias, Indianapolis. “We reported it to the school. I went to school board meetings and talked about it. Nothing changed. The children didn’t stop the bullying.”

Social worker Highley said there’s value in confronting a bully.

“What I’ve seen is that kids we empower to stand up for themselves are no longer a target,” Highley said. “I can’t say I support physical contact in return or as a response. But we have to empower kids who are being victimized to stand up for themselves.”

http://www.indystar.com/article/20120419/ENTERTAINMENT/204190320?odyssey=mod%7Cmostcom

Anti-Bullying Website Takes Over, Shuts Down ‘Revenge Porn’ Website

20 Apr

PHOTO: Hunter Moore, 26, sold his popular and controversial website IsAnyoneUp.com to Bullyville.com for an undisclosed amount.

A website that provided a free forum for scorned lovers to post nude photos and videos of their ex’s anonymously was sold to an anti-bullying website and then taken down Thursday.

“IsAnyoneUp.com served no public good. That is why it is offline,” James McGibney, the founder of BullyVille.com, said in a statement. “The problem of IsAnyoneUp.com is now solved. In its place, BullyVille.com will exist to help people who are being bullied solve their problems through cooperation and thoughtfulness, rather than abuse.”

BullyVille.com, a social website on which people can share stories about being bullied, was launched last Friday in partnership with Guns ‘N’ Roses lead guitarist D.J. Ashba, a personal friend of McGibney’s.

Weeks before IsAnyoneUp.com was taken down, Hunter Moore, the so-called “revenge porn” website’s founder, told “Nightline” he launched it as a place for “public humiliation.” People could upload sexually explicit photos and video without a victim’s permission, and include a screen grab of their Facebook account and a link to their Twitter account, for the whole Internet to see. A section on the website allowed people to comment on the photos and videos.

“Everyone was slamming [Moore] and saying what an a–hole he was, but no one was doing anything to try to fix it,” McGibney told “Nightline.” “No doubt, [Moore] was the No. 1 Internet bully out there and we took him down … not a hostle takeover but in a politically correct way.”


PHOTO: Hunter Moore, 26, sold his popular and controversial website IsAnyoneUp.com to Bullyville.com for an undisclosed amount.

PHOTO: Hunter Moore, 26, sold his popular and controversial website IsAnyoneUp.com to Bullyville.com for an undisclosed amount.













McGibney, who is also the founder of CheaterVille.com, a website that lets users post proof of their significant others cheating, said he first heard about IsAnyoneUp.com when he and Moore appeared on Anderson Cooper’s daytime talk show to talk about their booming websites.

A big reason for taking the IsAnyoneUp.com site down, McGibney said, was that there were reported cases of people who had committed suicide after appearing on it.

McGibney said he told Moore, “‘People are killing themselves and your talents are being misused,’ and I was able to get through to him.”

Several critics have accused McGibney’s deal with Moore as a p.r. stunt, but McGibney fired back, saying he wanted to shut Moore down to “save people’s lives.”

Prior to the IsAnyoneUp.com shutdown, Moore, 26, boasted to “Nightline” that he was a self-proclaimed “professional life ruin-er” and he had no scruples about hosting the website because the people on it were simply “characters and avatars and icons on a screen” to him and he wanted to take “full advantage of people’s mistakes.” Moore also said IsAnyoneUp.com got nearly 5 million hits a month and brought in an estimated $20,000 to $30,000 a month in advertising revenue.

But on Thursday, Moore told “Nightline” that before selling his website to BullyVille.com for an undisclosed amount, he had “zero in my bank account from this,” referring to IsAnyoneUp.com, and that he originally wanted his site to be “underground,” but it got “too much attention” and made him feel “horrible.”

“I am still Hunter Moore,” he told “Nightline” on Thursday. “People didn’t see me as a human being before but I got to a position now where I can actually help people without the site.”

Prior to the IsAnyoneUp.com shutdown, Moore told “Nightline” he would get thousands of comments from people whose nude photos wound up on his site, pleading with him to take down the material, to which he would say, “You could probably stop taking pictures of yourself and this might not happen.”

http://abcnews.go.com/US/anti-bullying-website-takes-shuts-revenge-porn-website/story?id=16174425

Union politicking is not ‘bullying’

2 Apr

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7 Bullying resources for parents

1 Apr

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Your school administration

The first bullying resource for parents is their child’s school. Whether your child is a victim of bullying or is the bully himself (or you are just concerned about intimidation at the school), you should reach out to your school teachers, counselor and principal for help. If you don’t get satisfactory results or assistance, don’t hesitate to go up the chain of command to the superintendent and ultimately the state Department of Education.

StopBullying.gov

The government website, StopBullying.gov, can be a helpful resource to learn about bullying policies and laws. 49 states have passed anti-bullying laws. The website also includes tips on preventing bullying, responding to bullying and talking about bullying.

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No Kidding About Bullying (Book with CD-ROM)

Based on a nationwide survey of more than 2,000 students and their teachers, No Kidding About Bullying: 125 Ready-to-Use Activities to Help Kids Manage Anger, Resolve Conflicts, Build Empathy, and Get Along (Amazon, $26) provides educators, parents and youth leaders with a wide assortment of activities that can be used to help children to resolve their conflicts without resorting to anger or violence. Geared toward grades three to six, this book and CD-ROM features games, role plays, group discussions, art projects and language arts exercises. The lessons affirm the importance of respect and kind actions.

The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander (Paperback)

This international best-seller is a favorite among parents and teachers. The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to High School — How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence (Barnes Noble, $12) talks about topics from conflict resolution to the three kinds of bullying. This practical, compassionate book is aimed at helping the triad of bullying — the bully, the bullied and the bystander.

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Stop Bullying: Standing Up for Yourself and Others (DVD)

This 20 minute DVD is short, but it provides very good information for kids. Featuring nationally acclaimed and Emmy-nominated youth speaker Mark Brown, Stop Bullying: Standing Up for Yourself and Others (Amazon, $40) uses personal experience to help provide students with concrete steps they can take to respond to bullying. It talks about the importance of respect and tolerance. This DVD is appropriate for junior high school and up.

Stand Up To Bullying (DVD)

This bullying DVD is essential for your little ones. Perfect for parents to watch with children ages 4 and up, Stand Up To Bullying (Amazon, $13) features Lucky Kat and Daren the Lion to address the topic of bullying. It talks about the different types of bullying and teaches children the best ways to respond.

The Bully Project

Another vital bullying resource for parents is The Bully Project. The Bully Project is highlighted by a documentary film, Bully, about bullying in our schools. Directed by Lee Hirsch, the film follows the lives of five students in Georgia, Iowa, Texas, Mississippi and Oklahoma who face bullying on a daily basis. The Bully Project is more than just a film — it’s a call to action and a tool to raise awareness about bullying. On The Bully Project website, you can find out more about the film and its stories, as well as tips and suggestions for parents, students, educators and advocates. Kids can share their own bully stories by posting stories, uploading photos or recording videos. You can also find out about new initiatives in school, communities and online. Watch the trailer below to learn more about the film. Bully releases in theaters March 30.

More about bullying

How a bully can change your life
Is your child being bullied at school?
Protecting kids from cyber bullying