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Anti-bullying program taught at Vacaville’s Callison Elementary

15 Sep

Trainer Helen Perdue was in full teaching mode by 11:10 a.m. Thursday and she had everyone’s attention.

In a small quad area between classrooms at Vacaville’s Callison Elementary, she laid down a 30-foot line of white duct tape. Some 40 students — fourth-, fifth- and sixth-graders — gathered on one side and responded to her questions. If the answer was yes, they crossed the line; if no, they stayed in place.

“I have been teased or insulted because of my religion?” Twelve students crossed the line.

“Thank you,” said Perdue, and the 12 students rejoined the larger group on the other side of the line and waited for another question.

“I have been teased or insulted, or left out, because of the size and shape of my body?” Nearly 30 students crossed.

“I have seen a fight happen and wanted to stop it but didn’t know how to?” Nearly all crossed.

“I believe it’s important for everyone at my school to feel safe, both physically and emotionally?”

All students crossed upon hearing Perdue’s last question, part of a block of instruction that served to launch the school’s Safe School Ambassadors Program, the first elementary in Vacaville to do so.

Developed by the Sebastopol-based Community Matters, the training, which continues at the school today, is a program that trains diverse and socially influential leaders to intervene with their friends and classmates when they see teasing, bullying and other acts of cruelty, said Perdue, a Bay Area-based

former middle school teacher who earned a master’s degree in education.

“The focus is empowering students to be the change-makers, to know there are effective actions” they can take to make a difference, to make their schools a safer place to learn, she said inside Room 14, site of the daylong training.

As she spoke, a visitor to the classroom could see the points and lessons she was trying to convey to the students throughout the morning. They were written on poster-size pieces of paper at the front of the class, labeled with outlines headlined “Types of Mistreatment” — exclusion, put-downs, bullying, unwanted physical treatment — “The Ambassadors Job” — notice the four types of mistreatment, among other things — and “Community Agreements” — respect each other’s ideas, set an example (a positive one), participate fully, encourage each other, have patience, be a leader and keep confidentiality.

The program is designed to be proactive rather than reactive, said Catherine Bozzini, principal of the 955-student campus, adding that schools for many students can be a place where they don’t feel welcome, safe and included.

“We see the program as a valuable resource in our efforts to improve school climate, attendance and academic performance,” she added.

Bozzini noted that officials at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta say 75 percent of students confide that they have been bullied at school, an estimate given credence by the response to Perdue’s questions.

The training, funded by a North Bay Schools Insurance Authority grant, comes at a time when school safety has been elevated to a primary concern at public schools nationwide following the April 1999 Columbine High School shooting in Littleton, Colo. There, Eric Harris, 18, and Dylan Klebold, 17, killed 12 fellow students and a teacher, then fatally shot themselves. Many schools responded by making themselves into fortresses, increasing supervision and surveillance, limiting access, setting stricter policies with graver consequences.

Until recently, schools and communities largely have overlooked the best source for stopping school violence and cruelty: the students themselves, Perdue said.

Students, she noted, can see and hear what adults cannot and can intervene in ways adults cannot but sometimes don’t know what to do.

The training, which included skits, simulated situations and a video clip from ABC’s “20/20″ news magazine program, provided skills for the students to make a difference in their school’s safety and overall atmosphere, Bozzini said.

“The power is ours,” she said following Thursday’s training. “After all, 90 percent of the school is made of students. They have the power to make a change.”

The state Department of Education has posted bullying and hate-motivated behavior prevention resources on its web site, a sign that Sacramento officials take the issue seriously in the wake of sometimes tragic occurrences on school campuses.

“Bullying is common, but it should not be viewed as a normal part of growing up,” said Tom Torlakson, the state superintendent of public instruction. “It is more damaging to children than previously thought. Bullying has a negative effect on a student’s ability to learn.”

Shereene Wilkerson, assistant superintendent for Vacaville Unified School District, said programs such as Safe School Ambassador can be included in each school’s Safe School Plan.

“Bullying would be part of that,” she said, noting that the district has provided anti-bullying awareness instruction in the past.

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Gay teen claims Ind. district didn’t stop bullying

4 Sep

INDIANAPOLIS — An openly gay Indianapolis teenager expelled for bringing a stun gun to school to ward off bullies is suing Indianapolis Public Schools, accusing administrators of failing to stop the “relentless, severe harassment” he faced in school.

Darnell “Dynasty” Young, 17, and his mother, Chelisa Grimes, filed their suit Friday in federal court in Indianapolis. It seeks unspecified damages over a series of alleged bullying incidents that led Young to fire a stun gun at Arsenal Technical High School in the spring, reportedly to scare away bullies. The move led to his expulsion.

The Indianapolis Star reported the suit alleges bullies used homophobic slurs, spat at Young and threw rocks and glass bottles at him, but that school administrators blamed Young, who carried his mother’s purses and wore her jewelry to school.

“Rather than take effective measures to protect him, school staff told him that he was to blame for the harassment because of his appearance and told him to change his dress and behavior to conform to stereotypical ideas of masculinity and to be less ‘flamboyant,’” the suit says.

The family’s attorneys claim in the suit that the district violated Young’s civil rights and the U.S. Constitution because, among other things, it discriminated against him based on his sexual orientation, and it tried to get him to change the way he dressed, a violation of his First Amendment right to freedom of expression.

The school district, the School Board, Superintendent Eugene White, Tech Principal Larry Yarrell and Assistant Principal Debra Barlowe are named as defendants.

District spokesman John Althardt said Friday that the district’s attorneys would “review the information and we will respond accordingly,” but he would not comment further.

Grimes has said she gave Young the stun gun so he could protect himself because she feared he would be hurt. On April 16, he fired it in the air at Arsenal Technical High School when six students allegedly approached him at school and threatened to beat him up.

“All students should be able to get an education without fearing for their physical safety, and they should be able to rely on school administrators to protect them when abuse does occur,” said Christopher F. Stoll, an attorney with the National Center for Lesbian Rights who is working on the case.

Young was expelled until January. In August, the district reduced the penalty so he could start the Fall Semester on time but said he would have to go to an alternative school. Young declined to come back to the district and is attending Indianapolis Metropolitan High School, a charter school, for his senior year.

His suit also questions whether the district followed proper expulsion procedures. It alleges Young was told he would have to “dress and behave in a manner that conformed to Principal Yarrell’s notion of appropriate masculinity” if he wanted to avoid expulsion.

Yarrell said this spring that the school hasn’t punished the people who allegedly threatened him because Young couldn’t identify them.

In a prepared statement released Friday, Young and Grimes said they pursued the suit to make sure other students who are bullied get help.

“Schools should protect students like me instead of telling them to change who they are,” he said in his statement.

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7 Bullying resources for parents

1 Apr

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Your school administration

The first bullying resource for parents is their child’s school. Whether your child is a victim of bullying or is the bully himself (or you are just concerned about intimidation at the school), you should reach out to your school teachers, counselor and principal for help. If you don’t get satisfactory results or assistance, don’t hesitate to go up the chain of command to the superintendent and ultimately the state Department of Education.

StopBullying.gov

The government website, StopBullying.gov, can be a helpful resource to learn about bullying policies and laws. 49 states have passed anti-bullying laws. The website also includes tips on preventing bullying, responding to bullying and talking about bullying.

Read about when girls bully

No Kidding About Bullying (Book with CD-ROM)

Based on a nationwide survey of more than 2,000 students and their teachers, No Kidding About Bullying: 125 Ready-to-Use Activities to Help Kids Manage Anger, Resolve Conflicts, Build Empathy, and Get Along (Amazon, $26) provides educators, parents and youth leaders with a wide assortment of activities that can be used to help children to resolve their conflicts without resorting to anger or violence. Geared toward grades three to six, this book and CD-ROM features games, role plays, group discussions, art projects and language arts exercises. The lessons affirm the importance of respect and kind actions.

The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander (Paperback)

This international best-seller is a favorite among parents and teachers. The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to High School — How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence (Barnes Noble, $12) talks about topics from conflict resolution to the three kinds of bullying. This practical, compassionate book is aimed at helping the triad of bullying — the bully, the bullied and the bystander.

Read about bullying in schools

Stop Bullying: Standing Up for Yourself and Others (DVD)

This 20 minute DVD is short, but it provides very good information for kids. Featuring nationally acclaimed and Emmy-nominated youth speaker Mark Brown, Stop Bullying: Standing Up for Yourself and Others (Amazon, $40) uses personal experience to help provide students with concrete steps they can take to respond to bullying. It talks about the importance of respect and tolerance. This DVD is appropriate for junior high school and up.

Stand Up To Bullying (DVD)

This bullying DVD is essential for your little ones. Perfect for parents to watch with children ages 4 and up, Stand Up To Bullying (Amazon, $13) features Lucky Kat and Daren the Lion to address the topic of bullying. It talks about the different types of bullying and teaches children the best ways to respond.

The Bully Project

Another vital bullying resource for parents is The Bully Project. The Bully Project is highlighted by a documentary film, Bully, about bullying in our schools. Directed by Lee Hirsch, the film follows the lives of five students in Georgia, Iowa, Texas, Mississippi and Oklahoma who face bullying on a daily basis. The Bully Project is more than just a film — it’s a call to action and a tool to raise awareness about bullying. On The Bully Project website, you can find out more about the film and its stories, as well as tips and suggestions for parents, students, educators and advocates. Kids can share their own bully stories by posting stories, uploading photos or recording videos. You can also find out about new initiatives in school, communities and online. Watch the trailer below to learn more about the film. Bully releases in theaters March 30.

More about bullying

How a bully can change your life
Is your child being bullied at school?
Protecting kids from cyber bullying

Gurbaksh Chahal, RadiumOne: From Bullied Kid To Multimillionaire

29 Mar

It didn’t take long once Gurbaksh Chahal’s family emigrated from India to San Jose, Calif., for bullies to target him. “Kindergarten was my first reality check that I looked physically different,” Chahal says. Kids started trying to hit the turban off his head when he was 5, and the bullying intensified through middle school and high school. “It got more personal with name-calling and more threatening, violent,” he recalls. “As time went on, it got rougher and rougher. A 5-year-old bully is very different from a 15-year-old bully.”

With no friends to hang out with, Chahal had the spare time to work side jobs and make thousands of dollars buying low and selling high — he’d buy refurbished printers from a local flea market for $50 and sell them on eBay for up to $200. He used that money to capitalize a startup, ClickAgents, at age 16, sold that business for $40 million. Then he started his second business, an online advertising company, BlueLithium, which he sold to Yahoo for $300 million in 2007. His latest business, RadiumOne, is an advertising network harnessing social interaction data. Accomplishing all this before age 30, Chahal proves sometimes bullied kids do get the last laugh.

How did your grandmother help you cope with being bullied?

The bullying got progressively worse through middle school to the point I had to make a choice, which is that I probably was not going to make friends. So I looked to my grandmother for moral support. We had a very close relationship, and when I’d come home with my turban in hand, she would comfort me and tell me things will get better, that I’m a great son and a good person. Some of those things I just needed to hear from her — it would give me strength to go to school the next day.

I realized I’m different — so what? I can go ahead and focus on real things, such as what I wanted to do with my life. Not having the distractions in my life that a normal 16-year-old would allowed me to mature a lot quicker and fall in love with business.

So starting a business also helped you get more confident?

I was definitely an introvert. I wouldn’t be the type of guy who could go in front of the class and give a speech, per se. But now I love to have an audience. When you’re confident in something, you start to become an extrovert. Through my experience as an entrepreneur, I’m a very different person now than I was as a 16-year-old. You have choices to make — one is to give up and be an introvert and let it eat you alive, or the other is to be confident knowing that you’re put on this earth for a reason. Bullying just gives you the strength to figure out what that reason is earlier in life, and that’s the biggest gift I’ve had — to figure that out at 16.

That’s when you quit high school?

There was a method and timing to that. It’s not like I just decided to drop out of high school because I was getting picked on. I spent hours in the library and computer lab, researching the Internet, and was fascinated with what was going on with the dot-com boom. I forgot I was 16, and basically said I want to be part of it, so I started a business from my bedroom. When my company hit $100,000 in sales, I asked my parents if I could quit high school. Had I not had a successul business in three months, I would have been in high school, gone to college, all the normal stuff. But I put myself out there. When you’re passionate about something, you figure out ways to make it successful. I had more money at 18 than I could dream of.

Why do you think selling your second company to Yahoo for $300 million meant so much to your father?

For my father, it was a sense of achievement the second time around. With my first company, you could say it was just luck, but when I did it twice, and the second one became an even bigger entity, he realized his son had achieved something: the American dream.

Did your experiences getting bullied help you deal with challenges in business?

I’m a very different person than who I was as a kid. I have the courage to overcome a lot both professionally and personally. I would go through all those struggles again, because it makes you a stronger human being.

What would you say kids who are getting bullied now?

Accept the fact that you’re different, and use your strength to figure out who you’re going to be in this world. Being the prom king or queen — all that stuff just fades. The broader purpose is what you do with your life. People like Bill Gates or Steve Jobs did so well in life not because they were the rock stars in their school, but because they were very different. Being different is cool. Being different actually gives you a canvas on which you can paint who you are and what you want to be vs. trying to fit in and be something you’re not.

Entrepreneur Spotlight

Name: Gurbaksh Chahal
Company: RadiumOne
Age: 29
Location: San Francisco
Founded: 2009
Employees: 150
2012 Projected Revenue: Undisclosed
Website: www.radiumone.com

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